Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. I found out that my husband has a secret phone. It had messages from women which looked like he was enquiring about services, availability and prices. When confronted he said he was just flirting and messing about but has never met up with anyone and just doesn't turn up to meets he's arranged. I just don't believe him. Why would he message and then never go through with it?
He says just for the thrill of it. He also had kik installed and Snapchat installed to message people and has admitted to looking for women on Craigslist and Gumtree? We have 3 under 2 year olds, are married and I've just gone back to work part time. I have no real money to my name. I didn't get any screenshots as I was so shocked. He immediately went and deleted his accounts and took the phone back to factory settings.
First off, please see about getting an sti check. Because I'm sorry, but the sort of men who message prostitutes for prices Dont let him turn this round on you.
He has already chosen to destroy your family unit. He may even have put your sexual health at risk. Perhaps even your children's if he was doing this before they were born. Add to that he is cheating. And exploiting vulnerable woman. Using their bodies as he would a toilet. And, lying to you. Personally that would be too far for me, and anyway I wouldn't believe him saying it's never gone further.
One day he WILL turn up to a meeting, if he hasn't already. Every man I have known who messages prostitutes has gone through with it. The money will work itself out, it always seems like a disaster at first but it works itself out in the end.
