Yes, it can be difficult to walk away from a partner you've been with for years—but sometimes it's for the best. Have you ever had a friend tell you that breaking up with their partner is just too difficult? Our bonds with serious partners are inherently different from those we share with other close loved ones.
And when you've been with someone for a large part of your life, it might be hard to imagine your days without them—not to mention the changing dynamics of friendships or support from each other's families. But when your heart tells you it's time, it's okay to decide you're ready for a new chapter.
Plus, being single again doesn't have to be scary: You may even find that exploring your life as an individual can help you get in touch with yourself. So instead of worrying about how to end a long-term relationship, let's put your fears to rest and determine how to break up while being fair to both parties.
Meet the Expert. Below, clinical psychologists and relationship experts explain the best ways to end a long-term partnership. Once you're certain that you're ready to have the talk, it's important to prepare yourself for the breakup.
You might be concerned about your partner's reaction—or changing your daily routine and the impact on your own mental health. Ultimately, it's normal to worry about how ending a relationship will take a toll on your life.
