A year later we welcomed our first child. I never imagined I would ever want a divorce. He actually said it. It turns him on. He has asked me to consider gaining weight. I told him he needs help. I made an appointment for him to see a therapist, and am forcing him to go. I feel cheated on and disrespected. Any help is appreciated. Because you already have a licensed mental health professional in your database, schedule an appointment for yourself to help you rationally decide what you need to do.
Can your husband be content to have his fantasy but not involve you? He brags to me about never ever having to buy groceries again. I think about the children and families who are in need of food during these terrible times.
Obviously, if his sister is allowing this, she is doing the same thing. I told him he should be ashamed of himself for taking advantage of this program. He was dishonorably discharged after seven months.
He truly feels the food is owed to him. This has been bothering me for a long time and, to be honest, I wish he had never told me. Those two appear to have no conscience. Contact the head of the organization that sponsors the food bank and tell the person what you have written to me.
However, it depends upon the length of the relationship and whether you met the person before he or she was incarcerated. If you knew the person before, it is possible. However, if your relationship began while he or she was serving time, it is extremely important that you verify ANYthing you are being told and refrain from sending the person money.
