Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship, but get intimate too soon and the experience can wreak havoc on your emotions and mess up an otherwise budding relationship. Getting this right is the key to maintaining your dignity and confidence, not falling for the wrong guy, and keeping safe.
Our bodies and minds work differently than they did at 20 or If your end goal is a relationship, give it time. Enjoy the early discovery phase without getting overly invested. And by overly invested, yes, I mean jumping in bed. Studies show that the oxytocin that women release after having sex gets most of us emotionally attached which is part of the magic of femininity!
That alone can muddle up this discovery phase by getting you attached too soon and relying too heavily on the sexual attraction. Notice how you FEEL around him. Realize that the wait IS NOT a game, rather a way to give you time to really sniff out his intentions and yours! Either way, good news. Believe me, I get it.
I see men graciously wait every day. And be sure you give him the same. Nothing wrong with getting straight to it β but know that the odds of him taking you seriously as Relationship Material are slim.
Yes, it happens, but not most of the time. A grownup man who is looking for a relationship will tell you. Relationship-minded, grownup men are not into playing games. They just want to meet a nice woman, have an easy time getting to know her and eventually end up with one wonderful partner to share the rest of a great life.
