What do you really have to offer that the Ladies or a friend of the House can not accomplish with ease on their own? Are you skilled at a trade? Are you a gifted housekeeper willing to deep clean the House from top to bottom expediently and with attention paid to detail while the Ladies attend to their other business unimpeded? Are you a 5 star chef?
In that case, it is your job to demonstrate your value and earnesty to your potential House or Mistress. Such a conversation might go as follows:. Having references who can vouch for your work helps too. Regardless of your answer to the questions, it is important to understand that Mistresses receive these requests for trade services all the time.
Perhaps they are turning you down because they have a slave, slaves, a social group, paying clients, or an intimate partner meeting their lifestyle needs already.
Perhaps the Mistress is very busy with paying clients and would prefer to leave her free time as personal time or else to invest it in other areas of Domme work. Perhaps they are turning you down because you have not demonstrated your value to them; a Mistress does not need a random man euphemistically up her ass, around the corner, and on her heels eating her time and attention, getting his kink on for free while he exhausts her, wastes her time, contributes nothing, and creates messes essentially being more trouble than his servitude is worth.
Perhaps the awful slave I have described is not you, but your prospective Mistress or House does not know that. The Mistress or House has to rely on your words and possible references. Do your words make a good sales pitch?
