I respect your privacy and only subscribe you to what you've specifically requested. Unsubscribe at any time. You appear to share common interests and possess a similar outlook. A pattern emerges. One night, lying there in the afterglow of another good session, you tentatively ask what the score is.
Every time these thoughts creep in, you remind yourself of when you were laughing a few weeks ago. You remember the stuff they talked about doing with you but have made no moves to , or when they said that they really enjoy your company. After posing the question, the atmosphere changes. They pull themselves onto their side and look at you. As I type these words, more than a few people out there are having sex with someone with who they have more than a casual interest.
Unfortunately, there are more than a few people out there who like the idea of sleeping with someone who seems crazy about them and believes that the relationship is going somewhere. Yep, pretty damn degrading. Not wanting a relationship but still sleeping with you while doing dating actions, messes with your head. It looks like a relationship and in your mind, feels like a relationship, but it has the hallmarks, not the landmarks of a relationship commitment, progression, balance, intimacy, and consistency, plus shared values, love, care, trust, and respect.
This is typically around the time when you want things to progress or are looking for clarification. They might kid themselves, insisting that they initially genuinely wanted a relationship, but at some point, they changed their mind. So they say nothing. And they ignore it. Because they focus on the action. Actions and words must match. No match, no relationship. Answer this question and you can start stripping the illusions out of this involvement. You can take action that gives you back your power.
Some people will chance their arm. Not only are sexual organs poor judges of character , but sex should never be used as a basis for working out what the hell is going on in your relationship. Time and experience demonstrate this.
