Sometimes we have trouble seeing things that are right in front of us, but sometimes things are hiding and only our mom can seem to find them. She somehow remembers where everything gets placed, and everyone in our family is lucky that she does otherwise no one would know where anything is at.
It has to be some sort of superpower. In the presence of your mom, you can always feel safe. Sometimes you need to talk it out, and you want someone who will just listen. They will listen without judgment and they will always be on your side. Need to know anything about your insurance, your bills, or those spots on your leg? You and your mother have countless inside jokes. Even at the age of 20 she will still pin you down and tickle you, because she can and because she knows every one of your tickle spots.
Moms are a special kind of human. There is a reason they are often referred to as supermoms. These sweet individuals are always trying to make our lives easier, and bless their souls for that. You need to be careful with your feelings.
Think of it as dipping a toe into the water β you only put in your toe, not your whole body. But, with not going public or giving commitment to the other person, brings in the issue of others trying to get with your person.
Well, the answer is: as many as you can keep up with. Think of it like a baseball team β if you strike out with one of them, you still have a ton more to go through.
