The last serious relationship I had went on for a little over three years. We had been pretty serious, at one point even considering marriage. We went through a lot together. Over the course of several years, I spoke with his mother briefly on the phone maybe two or three times.
This was usually during special occasions, like holidays or birthdays. We chatted over dinner, movies, hot tea, covering a range of topics from silly to deeply emotional. My family had almost become his family. Some people are excited by this prospect. Others cringe and hope the day conveniently never comes. Recently, I tend to be more of the latter. I met Josh on Bumble. My intentions for just sex could not be clearer I think I even said this word for word!
I decided to go for it. We decided to keep seeing each other, albeit very casually. Prior to arriving, I sent a very delicately worded text: "Hey! I pulled into his driveway and sent the obligatory "Here" text.
His 6'1" stature sauntered towards me, his long hair kept back with a backwards cap. He reached me and leaned in. He nodded. I paused for a moment, feeling a little agitated by the situation. I could turn around and leave, but that felt a little extreme. I had about ten seconds to react. We entered through the door and were immediately met with a glob of people. What they did do, was look at me. Especially his mother. I could feel that even without meeting any of their eyes.
You get a fuller, more complex understanding of them. If you wanted to know them on a deeper level, and start to develop ties with every aspect of their life. Post continues after audio. I feel like I can trust him. He has nothing to hide. In the end, that makes for the best sex of all. Want to have your voice heard? Take our survey now. Leave a comment. Watch: How to have better sex. Post continues below.
