Want some next-level dirty talk phrases for your man that are guaranteed to get a mind-melting, cock-stiffening response? Dirty talk is one of the quickest and easiest spices at your disposal to add tons of flavour to your sex life.
You might not want to say the wrong thing, or end up feeling embarrassed about not being able to do it well. Saying anything dirty at all is fun enough. But understanding his specific erotic hot-buttons will allow you to tailor your approach. Many men will have their own specific fetishes and desires to play off of. But these following four points are the essential underlying dynamics that apply to almost any man. In coaching my female clients over the years, there has been a clear consensus of wanting to be a dirty talking sexual dynamo with their man, but often not knowing where to start, and feeling incredibly shy about opening their mouths and letting this kind of stuff fly.
The fundamental part of doing this well, and turning him on, is being able to talk dirty with authority. In other words, embodying your sexual goddess — shamelessly and fully stepping into your feminine sensuality.
Great sex is about transmuting and expressing our full selves. Our intensity and vulnerability. Dirty talk is a powerful way to do that. Why do we enjoy strip clubs? Strippers are skilled professionals at embodying this sexual energy. There are more parts of us than just the sexual being. We enjoy furthering our careers, watching TV, and spending time with people. As a result, the erotic spark gets outsourced to novels, clubs, and pornography.
There is an immense sexual power inside of you that your man is drawn to like a moth to a flame. Any man wants to know that he has the power to satisfy you like no one else. He wants to be able to give you pleasure and make you feel amazing. He wants to know that he turns you on. He wants to know that you see him as a sexual being. And he wants to be used for your gratification as well.
