Whether we want to admit it or not, most everyone has had at least one sexual fantasyโand contrary to what societal norms say, the imagination game is routine human behavior.
Below, experts explain what a sexual fantasy is, the most common ones people have, and how to safely carry out those scenariosโif given the right time, place, and enthusiastic consent. A sexual fantasy is exactly what it sounds likeโa mental image or dreamed-up situation that turns you on. Some might be acted out, while others may solely be for your own imaginative safe-keeping. It never hurts to try something new. When it comes to sexual fantasies, the realm of possibilities is essentially limitless.
Here are a few of the most common:. Stepping into a new identity can bring a bedroom experience to new heights. A few examples that she often fields content requests for are scenes between a princess and pirate, a secretary and her boss, and a boss lady with her hunky new hire.
Multi-partnered sexโbe it between a couple and singles, multiple couples, or a group of singlesโis becoming increasingly common, and the little research that exists about it has found it to harbor positive experiences. BDSMโwhich stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochismโat its core, represents an erotic power exchange between partners.
It could look like 50 Shades of Grey with handcuffs, leather harnesses, rope play, and whips, but it could also be as simple as an otherwise submissive person taking on dominant behavior in bed, or vise-versa. Exhibitionism refers to the idea of being watched during sex, typically by a third party, whereas a voyeur is a watcher of the exchange.
