There are so, so, so many acronyms. Being a part of the sugar bowl means you need to learn a language very specific to the community. I love the term sugaring. Sweet, sweet cash. I could say it a million times and never get tired of it. Freestylers are the gods of the sugar bowl; they pick up their daddies in person. You aren't really sugaring unless you're willing to risk your morals.
You're not really an SB if you don't play by the rules. Ever been on Omegle on a Friday night in high school with your friends and in a group of white guys with polo shirts, one of them out of the blue throws the N-word at you?
Expect something similar when sugaring. Except sugaring is much worse because you have to face the racists in person. And these are grown men. SDs rarely leave the house anymore, it seems like the golden era of technology has even made sugaring more discreet, even if that discreteness goes out the window once you and a man twice your age step into a bar late at night. Here comes the moment when I realize I don't have the balls enough to be a sex worker and promptly delete tinder, Fetlife, OkStupid and every other outlet I thought would lead to millions of sugary dollars.
Or at the very least thousands. If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together.
And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group. Regardless of what you may have gone through, nothing can change the banter and personal communication you and your friends share.
